The True Meaning of "Success"

The first inkling of an idea for my YA novel came to me nearly three years ago. Although, the title was all I had, those three, little words wouldn't leave me alone and, before long, a vague idea for a story began to blossom.

At the time, I was in conversation with a wonderful agent. She was entertained by my tweets, and loved two different novels of mine. She just didn't think either book was "the one." I told her I had another idea that was banging around in my brain, though it wasn't fully fleshed out. She asked about it, and I explained it as best I could. She loved the premise, and told me to let her know the minute I had the first draft complete.

The rest, as they say, is history. Or, is it?

I did sign with her, but things didn't work out. (She's awesome and I have nothing but good things to say about her.) Afterwards, I received an offer to publish my YA novel with a well known vanity press, but decided that wasn't the way to go. 

In the meantime, I wrote a women's fiction novel and sent it to Portland for a full edit by the brilliant editor and former agent, Gretchen Stelter. I planned to dig into it as soon as I got her notes back, but instead, my YA novel had, once again, taken hold of my brain. 

After seeing the enthusiasm of some of my talented writer friends who have recently self-published, I thought perhaps that was the way to go for my YA project. I'd received suggestions for a grueling, but brilliant revision from an agent I genuinely admire, so I knew before I self-published, I had more work to do. Nearing the end of the long yet inspiring revision, I decided to email the agent who'd made the suggestions in the first place to see if she'd want to take another look. 

"Of course, I would!" she said.

It occurred to me, then and there, that I should try the traditional route once more, and that's where I am right now; sending my YA novel back out into the world in much, much better shape.

One of the greatest challenges we writers face is deciding when our novel is "done" and ready to query. As any writer worth their weight knows, the novel is not done when you write, "The End." Far from it. In fact, that's when the real work begins. The problem is, we often think our novels are query-ready long before they are. 

Fortunately, if you're focused, passionate, and determined and don't give up on yourself or your work, your writing will improve. And, whether you choose the traditional publishing route or self-publishing (or both), working hard and honing your skills will indeed make you a better writer. 

And being a better writer, in my book, is the true meaning of success.
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A Night to Remember

The first kiss of engaged life.
Nothing special happened in Denver. Unless, of course, you count getting engaged in front of my whole family and thousands of strangers on the field at Coors Field seconds before the fireworks started "something special." ;-))))))))))))

(Video was taken moments after my honey popped the question.)
My family at the game before the event. I was clueless about what was about to happen.

The ring!



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Denver Bound

Beautiful view of Denver taken from the East looking west.
Leaving for a week with the family in the fire-filled state of Colorado. Please keep positive thoughts alive for the fires to die down and for everyone to be safe.

And, best wishes to all for a happy, healthy, Fourth of July holiday!
This picture was taken yesterday, 6.27.12, near Colorado Springs, CO

Larimer Square in Downtown Denver - 4th of July Celebration
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You're Ruining My Life!

When I called my mom tonight, instead of her usual cheerful greeting, she said, "You're ruining my life!"

Surprisingly, I'd never heard her say those words before, although I'd supplied numerous opportunities. Like when I was six and hid my best friend in my room after our parents said we couldn't have a sleepover. Within an hour, police lights lit up the streets like a Christmas tree. Or when I was seventeen and declined my mom's invitation to join her and my sisters on a sightseeing excursion while on a cross-country trip. Instead, I climbed into the back seat of a strange car filled with strange guys and rocked out to Led Zeppelin, which is where my mom found me when she returned. I could go on, but I imagine you get the picture.

"Really? I've ruined your life?" I asked, wishing I'd had a glass of wine or three before I'd called.

"Yes," she said, pausing for effect. "I can't put your book down. I absolutely love it and can't wait to see what's going to happen next. It's ruining my life because I'm exhausted and need to take a nap." The cause of my drama-queen-ness is revealed: It's hereditary! 

"I'm glad to hear this, especially since you hated the beginning." I knew hate was a strong word, but it was drama-queen delicious.

"You're right. I hated it. But, it got better after that." Okay, so maybe hate wasn't such a strong word after all. By the way, she's currently reading my latest women's fiction book-the one that took me a year to write and contains the most cathartic words I've ever penned. The story that made me cry a thousand tears, eat a million chocolate-filled calories, and wander five hundred miles from my home. Lord, I'm one, Lord I'm two, Lord I'm three, Lord I'm four, Lord I'm five hundred miles from my home...

"Glad you like it, Mom. And, sorry. I didn't mean to ruin your life. I hope you'll forgive me."

"I already have. You are such a gifted writer." Another pause. "I'm so proud of you."

Tears filled my eyes, which was dangerous given I was driving.

Fame, fortune, and literary recognition are all well and good. But, you know what? For me, hearing a comment like this from one of the people I love most in this world is the ultimate definition of success. 

What about you? What's your definition of success?
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What Doesn't Kill You Makes You Stronger or GO MY LIFE!

"What doesn't kill you makes you stronger."
I didn't believe that for a long time, but now I know it's true. After two years of riding a brutal and unpredictable emotional roller coaster, I can finally say, "I'm happy, free, and stronger than ever." HIP HIP HOORAY! Or as my sister, Laurie, would say, "Go My Life!"
Me (left) w/my sister, Laurie, Cabo, Oct. '10



LIFE IS GOOD
Life is once again beautiful, fun, exciting, and filled with great possibilities. I'm currently:
  • Pursuing my music. (Again!)
  • Taking yoga classes. (*OM*)
  • Going back to school for Criminal Justice. (Look out, bad guys!)
  • In a healthy and happy relationship. (Thanks, honey!)
  • Taking piano lessons. (Learning how to read music - YIKES!)
  • Doing a Communications Course through Landmark Education. (Transformational work is good for the heart, mind, and soul.)
  • Finishing edits on my latest book!!! (Can't wait to query again!)
My last "live" performance, Oct. '09
Me & Bobby, April '12
My "new" piano!











TOUGH TIMES?
My advice to anyone going through a difficult time: 
 Me w/some people who love me: Mom, sisters Michelle, Sharon, Laurie, & Dad.
  • DON'T GIVE UP on yourself or on life. (Don't let the bastards get you down!)
  • LEAN ON PEOPLE who love you. (It makes them feel better, too!)
  • LOVE YOURSELF & YOUR LIFE. (There are brighter days ahead!)
  • When you're going through hell, KEEP GOING. (per Winston Churchill)
  • HANG IN THERE long enough to get past the pain. (You'll be amazed at how much better you'll feel.) 
  • You will GET THROUGH IT. (And life will be better than ever!) 
RIDE THE WAVES OF LIFE WITH GRACE
We all experience pain, suffering, loss, anger, jealousy, sadness, and grief. Maintain your dignity and live life with grace. Remember, you are beautiful, precious, loved, and deserve the best life has to offer. If you believe in yourself and follow your heart, you will not be disappointed.

LIFE CAN AND WILL GET BETTER! (I swear, it's true!)
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